Magic moments as Em and I get a whole day to spend together….

Em and 4

Emily has turned 22 and we have been planning a day together since Christmas and on Monday this week we pulled it off.

I headed down the motorway to Leicester and we spent the day doing all the things we love together. Leicester is a thriving city and two universities give it a very young feel. They have ‘lanes’ going off the city centre, just like Brighton, and the little shops up there were tailor made for us girls. We ‘oohhed and aahhed’ over paintings, glasswork, pottery and crafty gifts. We sat in a wonderful deli having lunch and caught up with our news. It felt like we were in Italy. A local wool shop gave us new knitting ideas and projects and the vintage and secondhand furniture shops are a treasure trove of fun.

Em took me to a place called ‘Ocean Commotion’ and some of her childhood memories floated up while we looked in all the tanks. The marvelous colours of the little fish and the gentle burble of the air in the tanks took us to another world for a while. Em remembered when she was little and we used to take her to a garden centre with a special place full of fish tanks. She loved those trips. I remembered two goldfish her Dad won at a fun fair years ago. ‘Gordon and Herbet’ lived with us for quite a while in the big glass bowl I found in a junk shop.

Magic moments float up as I think back to Monday. As the sun set (somewhere high up above, because it tipped down with rain all day) there were little twinkly lights that came on outside the shops. One place was covered in them right up the front from the display window to the roof three stories above. In another there was a studio above a gallery that had us both feeling a longing to get up there and paint. We found a cosy Irish pub and sat and nattered while I sewed a popper onto Em’s coat that kept flapping in the wind. The butterfly umbrella my Mum gifted Em was in use all day, but the weather did nothing to dull our shine.

We had a great time in a restaurant Em had discovered for our dinner. It offered a world buffet and I needed her guidance on several occasions as I looked at food I did not recognise. The staff were great and caught our fun mood and we left there with many good wishes and paper hats on our heads.

As we said ‘au revoir’ to each other Em put a huge bag of clothes, that she no longer wears, in my hand and I have already worn a spangly top that was nestling in there. She also discovered a lovely skirt and scarf in a charity shop for the new work I am doing on platform. She is one canny and thoughtful shopper.

Em is in her final year at Uni and has a 10,000 word dissertation before her in the next few months. We shared memories of the degree choices she had before her just a few short years ago, because she chose the unexpected. She made the best choice for her and I applaud her courage in following her heart, as she is flying with it. She has carved a lovely life out for herself in Leicester and has got out and about exploring and found all sorts of places. Her new friendships there have brought blessings forth and she has discovered much about herself.

Life flows and things rarely go to plan, as our children grow up, and in my case a marriage ends. Emily is a priceless gift from my marriage and life’s gifts continue to flow in the magic moments we have together.

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38 Responses to “Magic moments as Em and I get a whole day to spend together….”

  1. 1 ShimonZ April 1, 2015 at 10:57 am

    This is just a wonderful post, Jane. It is such a fine thing when a child of ours becomes an adult and we can enjoy our relationship as friendship. And I can tell you, from experience, it gets even better as they grow older. Best wishes to you and your loved ones.

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    • 2 Jane Thorne April 1, 2015 at 11:01 am

      Ahh Shimon, thank you and yes, this connection with my daughter is a treasured gift. Priceless. Love flowing to you and your loved ones for many joyful moments together. Hugs x


  2. 3 bardessdmdenton March 8, 2015 at 6:53 pm

    So much love between you and your daughter, Jane … it’s so evident and the photograph glows with the beauty of both of us, from inside out! XO ❤


  3. 5 elenacaravela March 5, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    So true, Jane. Plans almost always bend and change. A delightful day with your daughter. I have adult children as well, and it truly is lovely to share the history and enjoy them as friends.


    • 6 Jane Thorne March 5, 2015 at 2:30 pm

      Hello Elena, it is isn’t it? Sharing photos (bless WhatsApp) and news and then precious time together….we bring them up to fly and there are many blessings in sharing their adventures. Xx ❤


  4. 7 Jean March 4, 2015 at 12:20 pm

    Every visit-time with an adult child is precious. Great your daughter was with you.


    • 8 Jane Thorne March 5, 2015 at 11:24 am

      Thanks Jean and yes, it reminds me of your last blog post about comfort food…it’s all about love isn’t it? Hugs for you both over there in Canada. Xx

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  5. 9 Aquileana February 25, 2015 at 8:21 pm

    Spending time with the people we love is certainly the best thing… Beautiful post dear Jane ⭐ Sending you all my best wishes!. Aquileana 😀


  6. 11 Peter Wells aka Countingducks February 24, 2015 at 8:54 pm

    How very nice to see a picture of you with your daughter, and how happy you look together 🙂


  7. 19 Christy Birmingham February 22, 2015 at 5:12 pm

    What a beautiful time together; so glad you shared it with us!


  8. 23 1smiles February 22, 2015 at 4:16 am

    So glad you and Em had such a lovely day together. You are both gorgeous!
    Much love to you,
    Jeannie XXXXX


  9. 27 ianscyberspace February 22, 2015 at 3:31 am

    What a delightful journey of joy you took us on as you had time with your daughter. I wish ours were closer. We have a whole Pacific Ocean between us and them and we can no longer travel for health reasons. So make the most of every precious moment you can have with your daughter.


    • 28 Jane Thorne February 22, 2015 at 11:06 am

      Oh Ian, your words struck a chord. They are precious moments. After years and years, where sometimes we had an ocean and thousands of miles between us, my Mum and I are able to do simple things together at the moment, like going out for coffee or lunch. We are also able to work side by side together in church. You never know when the blessings will come in, or where they will come from, but they are so sweet when they do. Em and I are planning other days together. Hugs for you all Down Under. Xx


  10. 29 tornadoday February 21, 2015 at 6:30 pm

    And such are the reasons we came, to hold to eachother, living in eachother. Such a light would blind us if we knew all the places it would shine, beyond our days, beyond our life. Wonder glows; love glistens. I love this, Jane and the pictures are amazing. I have no doubt that Em holds to them as you do, by the edges with your heart. ❤


  11. 31 journeyintopoetry February 21, 2015 at 1:48 pm

    Oh Jane what a fab day you had! I can just picture you in all the places you visited. As always when I read your posts I don’t want them to stop! 😊. Lots of love and hugs ❤️ Xxx


  12. 33 grandfathersky February 20, 2015 at 10:52 pm

    So good to see you enjoying time with Em. I like the perspective in the last picture, you look so young !


  13. 35 Jill Weatherholt February 20, 2015 at 1:29 pm

    It sounds like it was a great day, Jane! The photos of the two of you are wonderful. Thanks for sharing!


  14. 37 Leny Owram February 20, 2015 at 1:10 pm

    You have made a magical place out of Leicester….it’s all in the eye of the beholder.Twinkly lights and fun times come from your heart…..perhaps they should make you the chief tourism officer…you have made me long to visit now..


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