The minute you say the word ‘should’ there is pressure; try it and see. I should do this, do that, say this, say that, be there, be that ….. the list is endless and there is pressure in every one of these instances. There is nothing natural about ‘should’.
I have changed ‘should’ to ‘will’; I will do this, do that, say this, say that, be there, be that.
Nothing happens by accident and life flows naturally. In flowing naturally with it the minute we say the word ‘should’ to ourselves or others then we are hampering the flow.