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Dreams…

Over thirty years ago, far away in Johannesburg, I watched my sister in law carve a headboard for their home out of wood. She had been to a workshop and was hooked, admitting that it was addictive as she found herself staying up into the wee hours carving after her family had long gone to bed. This memory took root and became a dream.

Over the years I spotted classes and courses, and when life gifted a gap, I signed up only to have them cancelled because not enough people were interested. Various creatives have offered to teach me in exchange for paintings and other creativity and for a multitude of reasons, their promises disappeared on the wind.

A few years ago I met a lovely lady called Marie, who weaves basketry in a shared studio not far from here, called The Wellington Road Art Studios and we stayed in touch. I had an email from Marie recently and she invited me to join them for a workshop with her talented woodcarver friend Jo. I didn’t hesitate and on Saturday we all had a magic day.

Jo is a gifted carver and a natural teacher. The peace of the studios gave us a foundation to create and Jo’s gentle encouragement and knowledge soon had us absorbed. Nothing is a mistake to Jo and wood can be carved around anything to restore balance. ‘I’ve lost my stem’ I called out, as my chisel removed an important piece of the ivy I was practising on. ‘Nothing is a mistake, Jane’ Jo soothed as she showed me how to carve down and raise it up again. When you are carving all else falls away, even the constant mind chatter. Feeling neglected at one point my mind chirped up with something I had forgotten to do that day and I found myself saying ‘Shhhhhh, later’ as I went back to carving the undulations on my dragon’s wings.

A heartfelt thanks to Jo for her loving care, Marie for sharing her space, the kindred spirits I created with and the moments that birthed a long-awaited dream. It was a gift to do something for the sheer joy of it and I loved every second. ❤

Epilogue to a cautionary tale as I have a ‘lightbulb’ moment and one of life’s ‘tweaks’ is taken on board….

I sat down at our dining room table yesterday after I had blogged about these hessian bags and looked at all the piles of carefully prepared parts sitting there waiting for me to put them together.

Then I had my ‘lightbulb’ moment….

I may be following my creative path but I am still a business and I had made a basic mistake. When you are trying something new start small…make one…test it first…evaluate the effort and time involved. I had dived in head first and had prepared the parts to make bags from all the sacks and my dining room table was groaning and mentally so was I.

I finished one bag and the friend who will receive it as a gift will hopefully be very touched.

Then I said ‘bollocks to it’ and packed everything away and am now using the hessian squares as liners in Claridges our hen house…waste not want not!

In the past I made choices that stamped on my creativity for years and I am now unafraid to say when I have taken a daft turn. So pants over tights and flicking that cape I am back in my workshop working with wood, painting away and singing at the top of my voice.


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SHEILA RENEE PARKER

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